Callum’s nearest and dearest are gathering to give him a good send-off. The bar is open, just like he wanted, and there’s a buffet table groaning with his favourite sweet and savoury snacks.

The time comes for the celebrant to say a few words about Callum — but they’re not the only one in the room with something important to say…

As the cling film comes off the samosas and fondant fancies, the lid gets lifted on the assembled guests’ secret lives — declarations of love and admissions of hidden heartache — journeys of self-discovery and self-acceptance — simple acts of kindness and fleeting connections which have had profound and lasting impacts.

Don’t Leave Me This Way is a funny, moving, bittersweet new show which explores ageing, love, sex, and relationships through a semi-improvised theatrical wake, featuring a cast with a majority of performers aged 55+. In Spring 2027, the show will embark on a pilot tour to seven rural and community venues across the West Midlands — with buffet snacks included within the price of each ticket.

The show forms a special piece of action research within Little Earthquake’s much wider national inquiry, which aims to capture and contextualise the experiences of older practitioners involved in small-scale touring. At the end of the activity, we’ll publish a case study, making recommendations for sector change which can better support those who want or need to keep working later in life.

As one strand of that research, we’ve developed an easy-to-complete online survey to help us hear from people aged 55 or over who play some part in the small-scale touring process — including those who make, appear in, or produce touring productions; those who present or promote touring productions; those who support or fund touring productions; or those who attend touring productions as audiences.

If you’re aged 55 or over, based in the UK, are involved in the small-scale touring of live performance, and would like to take part in our online survey — click the button below:

The team behind Don’t Leave Me This Way

Credits

CREATIVE TEAM

Director and Project Leader | Gareth J Nicholls
Writer and Project Leader | Philip Holyman

PRODUCTION PARTNERS

A Little Earthquake Production

Commissioned by Black Country Touring

Supported by Arts Alive, Live & Local, Applause Rural Touring, National Rural Touring Forum, Independent Theatre Council

FUNDERS

Funded by Arts Council England through National Lottery Project Grants, Black Country Touring, Arts Alive and Live & Local

FOR LITTLE EARTHQUAKE

Co-Director | Gareth J Nicholls
Co-Director | Philip Holyman

FOR BLACK COUNTRY TOURING

Artistic Director | Genevieve Say
Executive Director | Matt Andrews
General Manager | Corinne Morris
Promoter Manager | Natalie Kidman

THANK YOU

Genevieve Say and Matt Andrews for their massive support of Little Earthquake and Don’t Leave Me This Way; Natalie Kidman, Corinne Morris and the entire team at Black Country Touring; Hannah Prior, Angie Spencer-Tims and Clare Whitmore at Arts Alive; Chris Davis, Steve Wilson and John Laidlaw at Live & Local; Dawn Badland and Sally Lampitt at Applause Rural Touring; Abigail Reeve at National Rural Touring Forum; Charlotte Jones at Independent Theatre Council; Arts Council England for supporting the entire Don’t Leave Me This Way project; all of the participants, survey respondents, interviewees, and audiences for their time, contributions, and support